Not Helpful 25 Helpful Notice if your child has gender non-conforming tendencies. Be on the lookout for signs of depression or anxiety. Allow your child to explore their gender identity with a therapist or counselor. For transgender and gender-expansive youth, parental support is incredibly important. She claims she's not transphobic but she wont let me buy men's clothes. Instead, allow your child to explore their identity by trying new activities or dressing differently.
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Can you please give me some advice on how to come out? Love will conquer hate. If she cut it off herself, then you would need to take her to the hospital immediately for treatment. If you are wondering about the psychological impact, consult a therapist. Some need this, while others are okay without it. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Not Helpful 9 Helpful
Instead, allow your child to explore their identity by trying new activities or dressing differently. If they are transgender, offer them love, support, and resources. It also has nothing to do with how you have raised them. This can help you tell the difference between a child who says "I'm a girl" and a little boy who just likes wearing dresses. If your child is going outside of gender normative behavior, they might be teased or even bullied. Your child might want to take steps towards feeling more comfortable in their bodies.